Our Philosophy
"No bedtimes" is a term we use to exemplify our family philosophy. It is both literal and figurative. On one hand, it is a rejection of the ultra structured methods of modern parenting. On a deeper level, it is a way of expressing our belief that one never knows when an amazing moment will come and one should always be willing to lose a little sleep and abandon the schedule to fully participate in an amazing moment when it presents itself. Read More about what we believe…
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If your kids are old enough to be hiking on their own two legs, but cannot be trusted to follow directions carefully, do not hike this trail. There are steep drops on each side of certain portions of the trail and the ridge is approximately 20 feet wide at its narrowest point. Even if you can trust your kids to not fall off a cliff, you might still want to hold their hand as you cross this part. But if you like sweeping views and your kids are either old enough to be trusted or still confined to a carrier, this is a great trail!
There is so much to see in Italy and you could easily spend months there and still feel like you hadn’t seen it all. From picturesque beach towns along the coast to bustling ancient cities, massive snow capped mountains in the Italian Alps, and the fertile rolling hills of Tuscany, there are endless beautiful and vibrant places to visit in Italy. Given the time it takes to get there from the US, I would plan on spending at least …
Why this is one of my favorite hikes in the RRG:
With a span of 79 feet, Gray’s Arch is the largest arch in the RRG Geologic Area. It is actually 1 foot longer than the Natural Bridge arch but doesn’t get as much credit. I love this hike for several reasons. First of all, I love how Gray’s arch is tucked into the forest and hidden until you are right beside it. Secondly, the rock amphitheater that you pass as you approach the arch is just as cool as the arch itself. Finally, the trail is long enough to feel like you got some exercise, but not as hard as the trails to the Natural Bridge. If you want to do the shortest possible hike, you can hike to Gray’s Arch as an out and back trail. I prefer to...
Europe
If you want to give your kids an introduction to visiting foreign countries but don’t want to give up too many creature comforts, Europe is a good choice for a family vacation. We spent 11 weeks in Europe and barely scratched the surface of places to visit and things to do there. The beauty of Europe as a travel destination is that you can experience so many different cultures and countries without actually travelling that far. Due to the creation of the European Union, you don’t have to deal with immigration or changing currencies when you travel from one country to the next. All of that being said, there are some logistical challenges of travelling with kids that made my second trip to Europe very different from the trip I took carrying a backpack
Parc Guell is a privatized park that was commissioned by Eusebi Guell in the early 1900’s which contains several elaborate architectural elements designed by Antoni Guadi. Since I’m not an artist or architect, I’m not going to get into trying to explain the works of Antoni Guadi, but will just say that, if you are in Barcelona, you need to see them for yourself. They are so unique and somehow slightly unsettling but satisfying at the same time. La Sagrada familia is the coolest church I have ever seen and an absolute must-see in Barcelona. Parc Guell is the second most essential place to visit
Why visit Cadaques?
Having visited 35 different cities in the last 5 months, people keep asking me which is my favorite. It is a nearly impossible question to answer and I have started trying to come up with more focused questions to answer instead. One of these is, “which city would I pick for a week-long vacation abroad?” The answer to this one is Cadaques, Spain. Cadaques is located along the Mediterranean coast of Spain, on the Costa Brava, just south of the French border and it is absolutely perfect. There isn’t anything…
“There are only three sports: bullfighting, motor racing, and mountaineering; all the rest are merely games,” Ernest Hemingway. Many may find bullfighting gruesome or inhumane. There are arguments for either side, but that is not what you are here to hear about. What I am here to tell you about is the intricate art that exists within bullfighting.
“Bullfighting is the only art in which the artist is in danger of death and in which the degree of brilliance in the performance is left to the fighter’s honor,” Ernest Hemingway. The fight between a man and a bull is a testament to humanity's ability to overcome nature with skill, not with technology, but pure skill. The bull fight exists….
What is the Caminito del Rey?
Once known as one of the deadliest routes in the world, the Caminito del Rey is a walkway that was built along the sheer stone walls of the narrow gorge of the Rio Guadalhorce in 1901 for workers of the two adjacent power plants to travel between them and transport materials. It was completed in 1905 and King Alfonso XIII walked the path in 1921 to inaugurate the adjacent dam. It later became known as El Caminito del Rey (the King’s little path). Over time, the path, constructed of steel beams anchored to the side of the cliff and concrete, fell into disrepair. In the 1990’s, it became a famous route for daredevils who would walk the dilapidated route
This iconic caldera lined with white washed Cycladic style houses clinging to the edge of the cliff is one of the most picturesque places on earth. I was torn about adding it to our around-the-world itinerary and tempted to visit a smaller island instead; however, I wanted to see the iconic place for myself and decided in favor of Santorini in the end. We visited in April, before the tourist season was in full swing and it was absolutely everything it looks like in the pictures. As far as logistics go, it was one of the more complicated parts of the trip to plan and you should definitely start planning this family vacation far in advance.
“Megalithic” is a generic term referring to structures made out of large stones. Stonehenge is perhaps the most well-known of these but there are thousands scattered across Europe. They generally date back to the Neolithic period, between 5000-2000 BC. These structures are particularly fascinating and leave the observer wondering how humans could have moved and lifted these massive stones without machinery. Many theories exist but there is no way to prove exactly how they did it
Cadaques may be the most perfect town I have ever visited. One of my favorite things we did in Cadaques was spend a day hiking to Far de Cala Nans and relaxing at the secluded pebble beach, Platja de sa Sabolla. This trail starts on the southwestern edge of town, winds along the rugged coast, passing by a few beaches along the way, and ends at a lighthouse on a point jutting out into the Mediterranean Sea. It provides amazing views looking back at Cadaques and out at the Mediterranean Sea while hiking through the beautiful wind-battered desert shrub along the coast.
The Massif des Calanques is a national park in southern France that stretches 20 km from Marseille to Cassis and extends 4 km inland from the rugged coast line. A Calanque is a “narrow, steep-walled inlet composed of limestone, dolomite, or other carbonate strata found along the Mediterranean coast.” The national park is crossed by multiple trails of varying difficulty. It only took a few images of the Calanques d’En Vaut to motivate me to check out one of the easier trails that begins in Port Miou, passes by Port Pin, along the cliffs of d’EN Vaut, and ends at the gorgeous…
After 3 hours on a winding mountain road from Delphi to Kalambaka, I rounded up the troops for a sunset hike on the Vlachatta Loop trail. For some reason, they had forgotten who they were travelling with and thought we would spend the evening resting, but, in the end, everyone was happy that we hiked this trail instead.
The Trail: This is a nice varied trail with some sections in a lovely shaded oak forest, beautiful views of the limestone formations and the valley below, and an abandoned monastery. The trail is technically a lollipop trail rather than
Hawaii
I truly loved this trail. If you are up for a challenge, it is worth every step. It was a great trail for our active and experienced 9 and 14 year old boys, but I would not recommend taking young kids or kids without hiking and creeking experience on this hike. Just know what you are getting into, give yourself plenty of time, and be prepared.
I have mixed feelings about visiting memorials of tragic events with kids. On one hand, these memorials can do a great job of showing how tragic and meaningful these historical events were and I want my kids to know about and understand the gravity of these events. On the other hand, it can be challenging when they don’t really “get it” or they act like kids and run around being loud and goofing off when it really isn’t appropriate. That is what happened to us at the 911 memorial. Gus was only 5 at the time, and, of course, didn’t really perceive the gravity of the situation. I, meanwhile, am sobbing after listening to the recordings of the first responders and our two mental states just didn’t go well together. I have learned a few lessons.
So, what makes Lanikai so awesome? 1. Extremely fine, soft, buttery sand. 2. A shockingly healthy and extensive protective reef. This was definitely the healthiest reef and best snorkelling we did in Hawaii. Other areas may be better in the summer, but this was our favorite winter snorkelling. 3. The Mokes. These two conical islands about 1 mile offshore add to the picturesque setting. 4. Calm waters. We went on a relatively windy day with choppy 3-5 foot waves on the east shore, but the water at the beach was calm and flat due to the large protective reef. 5. The size. This beach stretches on for half a mile. Even though there were a good number of people there, it didn’t feel crowded because everyone could spread out.
If you have ample resources and can only visit one island: Maui.
If you want to see Hawaii but you are on a budget: Oahu.
If you are into hiking or less developed destinations: Kauai.
If you want to see volcanoes: The Big Island.
Ideally, when planning a trip to Hawaii, I would recommend picking two islands and taking a weekday Southwest flight between the islands if possible. The inter island flights are super easy and cheap and you get the bonus aerial view of the islands. When we come back, I will likely plan 9 days in Maui and 3 days in Kauai to hike the Na’Pali coast. My advice would be to pick one island for a longer stay (7-10 days) and then a second island for a shorter stay (3-4 days) just to hit the high points.
Tips for Maui:
1. Don’t plan on spending only 12 hours there. It’s a beautiful island with so much to see! Give yourself 10 days.
2. Allow for plenty of driving time. I really stressed Joey out by packing too much into the day and not accounting for traffic.
3. Visit Lahaina for great food and the largest Banyan tree in the US.
4. Visit Maui between the months of January and March for prime whale watching and perfect weather. (You can see whales November-May, but January-March is prime viewing.)
5. If you do a whale watching tour with Trilogy and you don’t want to have to climb a moving, slippery ladder in the ocean to board the boat, do the tour out of Lahaina.
6. If you are in a hurry, don’t order a deep fried dessert.
What we liked: Swimming in Yokohama Bay!; Albatrosses; Views of the coast line and mountains
What we didn’t like: The point itself was a little anticlimatic as a destination. The trail was hot and exposed, even at 5:00 PM. Getting locked in the park at 7:00 PM!
I highly recommend visiting Yokohama Bay. It is our favorite beach on Oahu. Combining it with the hike to Ka’ena point before or after is a perfect half day activity.
You can only be at the summit from 30 minutes before sunrise to 30 minutes after sunset.
You will be traveling from sea level (if you come from the coast) to 13,803 feet in around an hour. This change in altitude affects everyone differently. If you have a history of altitude sickness or health problems affecting your heart or lungs, you should sit this one out. I recommend stopping briefly at the visitor center half way up to let your body adjust to the altitude before heading on. If you don’t feel well at any point, turn around.
You will need 4 wheel drive due to the very steep and sustained grade of this road. You do not need a car with high clearance. The road was well maintained and even paved throughout a large portion at the top.
Hawaiians should get more credit for their food. They have a reputation for eating Spam, a canned meat product, and it is true that Spam is eaten with much greater frequency here than in other US states, but I feel like their appreciation of Spam really overshadows their unique and complicated cuisine. Just like the Hawaiian people are a melting pot of Asian, Pacific Island, and American cultures, Hawaiian cuisine incorporates and takes the best from all of these culinary traditions. Mix that up with tons of fresh fish and fresh fruit and you have a cuisine to match the scenery. Hawaiians have also embraced the food truck, the roadside stand, and the divey fast casual joint, so some of the best Hawaiian dishes are found in unassuming digs and won’t break the bank. Here is a sampling of some of the uniquely Hawaiian foods we have tried so far.
The Ho’omaluhia botanical gardens are nestled just south of the Ko’olau mountains on the windward side of Oahu in Kane’ohe. Entrance to the gardens is free and they are open from 9-4 each day. The gardens comprise 6 different areas and a lake that are connected by a dead end road. Each area has a different theme and it’s own parking lot with restrooms and a walking path through the gardens. A few of the gardens are also connected via mowed, grass paths, so that you can piece together your own loop trail. Additionally, there are a couple short trails that meander through the property and are separate from the gardens.
What: Nicely paved walking trail that winds along the rocky shoreline of the southeastern tip of Oahu and ends at a lookout above the Makapu’u lighthouse, a historic lighthouse built in 1909 and still functional today. While the lighthouse may be the main attraction for some, and it is quaint and historic, the real stars of this hike are the AMAZING views throughout the entire hike.
Where: The southeastern tip of Oahu, just past Hanauma Bay and Sandy Beach, at the most eastern turn of highway 72.
What: Paved trail with multiple sets of stairs, originally built by the military in 1908 as part of Oahu’s defense system, which leads to the summit of the crater rim along the Southwestern point. Diamond head is the remnant of an extinct volcano that erupted approximately 300,000 years ago, leaving behind the crater. Located along the Eastern border of Waikiki beach, it is an iconic image of Hawaii and you have likely seen a picture of it at some point. The summit offers amazing views of the Southern and Western coasts of Oahu, including Waikiki. We could even see the smaller islands of Molokai, Lanai, and the peaks of Maui in the distance from the top.
Asia
The Dead Sea and Petra inspired us to add Jordan to our around the world itinerary and Amman, the capital city, was the natural starting point for a week in Jordan. I had no idea what Amman would be like and I’m not sure I had even seen a picture of the city before planning the trip. When booking a place to stay in Amman, my primary motivation was finding a place within walking distance of the major attractions. Beyond that, I knew nothing about the various neighborhoods. Despite this lack of foresight, we somehow ended up in an amazing and absolutely perfect neighborhood…
loating in the Dead Sea is a truly out of this world experience. I wore my Chaco water shoes while swimming and they are slightly buoyant in fresh water. In the Dead Sea, it felt like I had balloons strapped to my feet and I could barely keep my feet under me. While casually floating, half of my chest was out of the water and the resultant feeling of weightlessness was truly invigorating. If you know me, you know I was giggling with excitement the whole time.
Petra is a deserving member of the “seven wonders of the modern world” and may be the most spectacular place on earth. If a more spectacular place exists, I can’t think of it now. It is truly remarkable. The swirling patterns of yellows, reds, oranges, whites, and blues of the sandstone walls and the magical narrow crevasse of the Siq are spectacular enough on their own to land Petra in the top 20 coolest places on earth…..With all that amazingness in mind, it is hard to believe how visiting Petra could be as unpleasant as it was. You can imagine that it would take a lot to ruin such an amazing place, but, somehow, the people offering animal rides in Petra have managed to do it.
Red River Gorge
In November of 2019, we took our first family backpacking trip in the Red River Gorge to Hanson’s point. This was a great trail for our first overnight stay because it is easy, there are ample places to camp along the trail, and the view at the end is spectacular. Star gazing at Hanson’s point on a clear fall night was magic, but it wasn’t for the faint of heart. The drops along the point are huge and scary, so keep your kids close and please do not...
If you are hiking with small children, the Rock bridge/creation falls loop trail is the ideal introductory hike in the Gorge. It has a unique arch (the only arch in the gorge that spans a body of water) and is long enough to feel like you are really in nature, but is still nice and easy. It follows Swift Camp Creek for most of the trail, providing ample opportunities for young ones to play in the water, look for crawdads, and skip some rocks. It is a great trail for all four seasons and is one of the only enjoyable hikes in the gorge when it is hot outside. We like to hike this one in our bathing suits and take a dip in the pool below Creation falls on hot summer days.
Every time I read an article about Tyler Childers, and I have read several since he has been neck and neck with Taylor Swift as my favorite artist over the last seven years, I think “I could do better.” Shockingly, since I have absolutely no authority as a music critic, no one has asked me to write one. After listening to his new single “In your love” on repeat for two hours yesterday, I have decided it is time to put these feelings into words. So here is my attempt at explaining why I love his music so much, why he sold out two nights at Rupp Arena in a matter of minutes, and why going to his concert where every single person around you knows all the words too feels like going to church
If you aren't from Eastern Kentucky, you might think that mushroom hunting involves some sort of weapon, such as a bow and arrow, but you would be wrong. Mushroom hunting is what we call foraging for morels. Morels are a wrinkly, rare and delicious fungi that only pop up for a few weeks in the spring, when conditions are just right. Technically, the morel is the fruiting body of a much larger mycelium that lives underground in a symbiotic relationship with tree roots. One of my most clear and fond memories of my childhood is searching the hillside with my Mamaw Mary in the spring looking for morels.
What are The Pinnacles?
The Pinnacles are rock outcroppings located on the Eastern and Western portions of Indian Fort Mountain just outside of Berea, KY. They are a part of the Knobs region of Kentucky that forms a horseshoe around the more low lying Bluegrass Region. The Knobs are composed predominantly of sandstone which is more resistant to erosion than the nearby limestone of the Bluegrass Region. Beyond the Knobs region to the south and east lies the Cumberland Plateau. The hiking trails to the Pinnacles are located within The Berea College Forest, owned and managed by the college forestry department.
This is an unofficial and unmarked trail in the Red River Gorge Geologic area. I don’t usually recommend trying unmarked trails with kids, but this one is hard to get lost on because you are following the creek bed for the entire route. It is also a moderately popular hike and well-worn. The giant rock house with Copperas fall spilling 42 feet over its roof into a cool pool below is a great payout for kids. In the summer, the water, which comes mostly from underground springs, is still surprisingly…
Why this is one of my favorite hikes in the RRG:
With a span of 79 feet, Gray’s Arch is the largest arch in the RRG Geologic Area. It is actually 1 foot longer than the Natural Bridge arch but doesn’t get as much credit. I love this hike for several reasons. First of all, I love how Gray’s arch is tucked into the forest and hidden until you are right beside it. Secondly, the rock amphitheater that you pass as you approach the arch is just as cool as the arch itself. Finally, the trail is long enough to feel like you got some exercise, but not as hard as the trails to the Natural Bridge. If you want to do the shortest possible hike, you can hike to Gray’s Arch as an out and back trail. I prefer to...
The first thing to know is that the Red River Gorge is a geological feature and the area lovingly referred to as “The Gorge” or the “Red River Gorge” includes the actual gorge formed by the Red River as well as a surrounding amalgamation of public and private lands available for recreational use. It is quite complicated really. While it isn’t important to understand the history and complexity of the many areas that make up the RRG, it is important to know where you will be hiking, climbing, or camping because each entity has its own unique set of rules and regulations. Below are some quick and dirty guides and links for more information on each.
Why visit the Red River Gorge?
With towering sandstone cliffs, over 150 named sandstone arches, unique and lush flora, hiking trails for all ability levels, over 3,000 bolted sport climbing routes, and rushing mountain streams all around, the Red River Gorge (RRG) is a nature lover's paradise. If you have ever visited Gatlinburg, TN and wished you could have seen it before it became so crowded and over-developed, the Red River Gorge is the place for you.
We have been to cities all over the world and l would honestly put St. Louis at the very top of the list of cities to visit with kids. I am trying to think of any other city I would put above it and there is none. The variety of things to do in St. Louis coupled with its affordability and ease of navigation makes it a fun and easily accessible destination with kids. Not only are there tons of activities catered towards kids there, but it is also culturally acceptable and even expected that you bring your kids everywhere. Because a lot of the tourist destinations in St. Louis were funded by philanthropic donations from the Busch family, many of the major attractions are TOTALLY FREE. I’m not kidding